Saturday, September 19, 2009

6 PRINCIPLES OF LIFE

  1. No point using limited life to chase unlimited money
  2. No point earning so much money you cannot live to spend it
  3. Money is not yours until you spend it
  4. When you are young, you use your health to chase your wealth;when you are old, you use your wealth to buy back your health. Difference is that, it is too late
  5. How happy a man is, is not how much he has but how little he needs
  6. No point working so hard to provide for the people you have no time to spend with

Seems like only yesterday...

"Life is short, break the rules,
forgive sooner, love with true love,
laugh without control and
always keep smiling.


Maybe life is not the party that we were expecting,
but in the mean time, we're here and
we can still dance..."

白人婦女教導孩子何謂黑人 ... 很棒...

這是發生在美國的真實故事。第一次聽到時,深深憾醒沈睡的心.........

在美國,有位白人婦女帶著 6 歲大的兒子出遠門,找來了計程車,司機是位黑人。

這 6 歲的兒子從未見過黑人,心中非常的害怕,就問媽媽:「 這人是不是壞人,為什麼會長得黑嚕嚕 ?」

黑人司機聽了很難過。

此時白人婦女告訴兒子:「這位司機叔叔,不是壞人,他是一個很好的人。」

兒子沈默半晌再問道:「既然他不是壞人,那他是不是做了什麼壞事,所以天父在懲罰他 ?」

黑人聽了淚水在眼眶中打轉,他很想知道這白人婦女怎樣回答 ?

媽媽說:「他是個很好的人,也沒有做壞事。咱們家花園的花,有紅、有白、有黃... 是不是 ?」

「是啊!是啊 !」

「那花的種子是不是都黑色的 ? 」

孩子想了一下,「對啊!都是黑的。」

「黑色的種子,開出色彩鮮美的花朵,讓這世界多采多姿,是不是 ?」

「是啊!」孩子恍然大悟地說: 「那司機叔叔不是壞人嘍!感謝司機叔叔,您讓這世界多采多姿,我要為您祈禱。」

天真的孩子在一旁禱告著,黑人司機的淚水奪眶而下,心想:「 身為黑人被世人瞧不起,今日,這位白人婦女如此溫婉地教導孩子,解除孩子心中對我的恐懼,為我祈禱與祝福。真得好好的謝謝她。」

此時,目的地到了,黑人司機趕緊下車為白人母子開車門,感激的說:「夫人,謝謝您,您的一席話,讓我的人生,充滿光明希望,不再晦暗,夫人,謝謝您 !」

很美麗的女子,是不是 ?

這是發生在美國的真實故事。第一次聽到時,深深憾醒沈睡的心。

不止一次的讚嘆這位美麗的女子那高度智慧的言語,教導孩子不要有分別心的同時,更溫暖了傷痕纍纍的心。

■ 好東西來自分享, 分享來自好東西。

Monday, July 27, 2009

WaterFront

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BaRsu, exclusive pub :) Manage to make a round inside it, then CABUT~~~ before being detacted... (coz no need attire requirement)
Thanks to Nic.. Happy belated birthday. ..



End uo, I yim cha beside BaRsu... 'the Loft', name very familiar.....

(24/7/09)

Monday, July 20, 2009

'God' and the unknown 'Me'

This is an excellent conversation between 'God' and the unknown 'Me'. I don't know as to who has been the composer of such an interesting and captivating conversation; but he/she has definitely put in good thoughts crafting the same.

Those who don't believe in God may also find it worth reading once. Enjoy and Think!

God: Hello. Did you call me?
Me: Called you? No... Who is this?
God: This is GOD. I heard your prayers. So I thought I will chat.
Me: I do pray. Just makes me feel good. I am actually busy now. I am in the midst of something.
God: What are you busy at? Ants are busy too.
Me: Don't know. But I can't find free time. Life has become hectic. It's rush hour all the time.
God: Sure. Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you results. Activity consumes time. Productivity frees it.
Me: I understand. But I still can't figure out. By the way, I was not expecting YOU to buzz me on instant messaging chat.
God: Well I wanted to resolve your fight for time, by giving you some clarity. In this net era, I wanted to reach you through the medium you are comfortable with.

Me: Tell me, why has life become complicated now?
God: Stop analyzing life. Just live it. Analysis is what makes it complicated. >
Me: why are we then constantly unhappy?
God: Your today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. You are worrying because you are analyzing. Worrying has become your habit. That's why you are not happy.
Me: But how can we not worry when there is so much uncertainty?
God: Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.
Me: But then, there is so much pain due to uncertainty.
God: Pain is inevitable able, but suffering is optional.
Me: If suffering is optional, why do good people always suffer?
God: Diamond cannot be polished without friction. Gold cannot be purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don't suffer. With that experience their life become better not bitter.

Me: You mean to say such experience is useful?
God: Yes. In every term, Experience is a hard teacher. She gives the test first and the lessons afterwards.
Me: But still, why should we go through such tests? Why can't we be free from problems?
God: Problems are Purposeful Roadblocks Offering Beneficial Lessons (to) Enhance Mental Strength. Inner strength comes from struggle and endurance, not when you are free from problems.
Me: Frankly in the midst of so many problems, we don't know where we are heading...
God: If you look outside you will not know where you are heading. Look inside. Looking outside, you dream. Looking inside, you awaken. Eyes provide sight. Heart provides insight.
Me: Sometimes not succeeding fast seems to hurt more than moving in the right direction. What should I do?

God: Success is a measure as decided by others. Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you. Knowing the road ahead is more satisfying than knowing you road ahead. You work with the compass. Let others work with the clock.
Me: In tough times, how do you stay motivated?
God: Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.
Me: What surprises you about people?
God: When they suffer they ask, "why me?" When they prosper, they never ask "Why me". Everyone wishes to have truth on their side, but few want to be on the side of the truth.
Me: Sometimes I ask, who I am, why am I here. I can't get the answer.
God: Seek not to find who you are, but to determine who you want to be. Stop looking for a purpose as to why you are here. Create it. Life is not merely a process of discovery but a process of co-creation. You are my co-creator.

Me: How can I get the best out of life?
God: Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.
Me: One last question. Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.
God: There are no unanswered prayers. At times the answer is NO.
Me: Thank you for this wonderful chat.
God: Well. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Don't believe your doubts and doubt your beliefs. Life is a mystery to solve not a problem to resolve. Trust me. Life is wonderful if you know how to live. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that took our breath away!

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Man United Won!!!

Finally, I able to watch LIVE MANCHESTER UNITED match this weekend :)
3 vs 2 (MAlaysia XI)
What a great & fanstatic experience with all the manU fan!!! & with my friends &bro......
Hidup Man U :)
18/7/09 at Bukit Jalil Stadium :)

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Taiwan May09





Just manage to upload some of the photos....
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